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The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption recently released its annual “100 Best Adoption-Friendly Workplaces” list. The Foundation has compiled a yearly list of workplaces that offer the best policies for employees growing their families through adoption since 2007. The criteria involve benefits such as financial assistance and paid leave for adoptive families. Employers submit applications and complete surveys, and the Foundation analyzes their data to create the list. The highest amount of financial reimbursement offered by this year’s applicants was $25,000.00, and the longest duration of paid leave was eighteen weeks. The average amount of financial assistance employers offered was $8,000.00, and the average duration of paid leave was five weeks.

Ferring Pharmaceuticals topped the 2016 list, with adoption policies that include reimbursement of up to $25,000.00 in adoption expenses, up to five and a half weeks of paid leave, and adoption counseling resources.  The rest of the top ten is comprised of:

  1. Citizens Bank ($23,460.00 in reimbursement of adoption expenses and 1 week of paid leave);

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Michele Jackson, Wayne DeVeydt, and Family to be Honored at Donaldson Adoption Institute’s Taste of Spring Event

Carmel, IN – May 3, 2016 – Michele Jackson, her husband, Wayne DeVeydt, and their family will be honored as the inaugural Modern Family Award recipients at the Donaldson Adoption Institute (“DAI”)’s Taste of Spring 2016 event on May 5, 2016 in New York, NY. The Modern Family Award is presented to a family that reflects the “changing landscape of the American family” through adoption, and exhibits the DAI’s core values of “openness, understanding, and respect.”

Infertility.jpgOne in eight couples experiences infertility in the United States. While infertility awareness is growing, people facing infertility may encounter insensitive and hurtful comments (though not always intentional). A brief refresher on infertility etiquette is a helpful way to minimize these uncomfortable experiences. Read on for some Dos and Don’ts when talking to friends and loved ones experiencing infertility.


Listen. Show them that you care by listening to them if they choose to open up about their infertility struggle. Lend an ear and remain attentive as they share their experience with you.

MJ NCFA Advocacy Day.jpgAs National Adoption Month wraps up, we wanted to share a photo of attorney Michele Jackson and Congresswoman Susan Brooks taken this summer at the National Council for Adoption’s Advocacy Day. Ms. Jackson spent the day on Capitol Hill meeting with several members of Congress to promote adoption and advocate for the adoption community.

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Remember, these blog posts are not meant to be legal advice. You should consult an adoption attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

family.jpg In honor of National Adoption Month, our November blog posts are focused on adoption. Today’s blog explores open vs. closed adoptions. These terms are often thrown around in discussions surrounding adoption. Simply put, they refer to the agreed-upon relationship between the adoptive parents and the birth mother before and after the placement. However, the meanings of these terms are not as definitive as they may seem.

Open adoptions encompass a broad variety of relationships. While many people understand them as continuing a relationship between the child and the birth mother after the child has been adopted (through visits and communication, for example), this is only one example of open adoptions. The common thread in all open adoptions is that some kind of in-person contact exists between the adoptive family and the birth mother, and the parties share identifying information. However, the degree of openness between the parties is different in every adoption. Some families may elect to have regular visits with the birth mother, while others may choose to arrange phone calls during the holidays.

Closed adoptions involve limited contact. Identifying information is not shared between the parties, nor do relationships exist between the parties before and after the placement. Typically, the only information shared in closed adoptions includes medical records. However, in this age of electronic communication and social media, it may be nearly impossible to conceal the other party’s identifying information.

Attorney Michele Jackson, who serves on the Governor’s Adoption Committee, is among other Adoption professionals, adoptive parents and adoptees who attended Indiana’s Third Information and Awareness Adoption Fair. The fair provided education and celebration for adoption.

Here is Michele’s son, Thaxton, with Governor Pence.

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Thumbnail image for Thumbnail image for MLJ WEB.jpgFor the second year in a row, attorney Michele Jackson has been selected as a finalist for the annual Indy’s Best and Brightest award ceremony created by Junior Achievement. The event will honor 100 of central Indiana’s most outstanding young professionals, age 40 and under, in 10 different industries.

The Best and Brightest event was created by Junior Achievement to recognize up and coming talent and the next generation of leaders in our community. Finalists in each category are judged on professional accomplishments, civic contributions, character and leadership qualities. The finalists to be honored at the event are listed below, as well as the website,

Michele Jackson chairs the firm’s Adoption and Reproductive Law Practice Group and focuses her practice in domestic and international adoptions as well as reproductive law matters. Jackson is also the founder of MLJ Adoptions, Inc.

embryo.jpgHave you ever wondered what happens to frozen embryos that go unused after a woman undergoes in vitro fertilization (IVF) and achieves a successful pregnancy? People with leftover embryos have various options: keeping the embryos frozen, destroying them, allowing them to be used for scientific research, and donating them. Embryo donation is on the rise as a means of conceiving a child to parents who are unable to naturally do so. This process enables a woman to donate her unused embryos to a clinic so another woman can have a child. Embryo donations usually occur anonymously, and require no contact between the donor and the recipient. However, a few clinics exist that encourage communication between the donor and recipient families, giving donors a say in choosing their embryo recipients.

The topic of embryo donation has been surrounded by controversy in recent years, specifically when the Bush Administration funded Nightlife Christian Adoptions’ Snowflakes Embryo Adoption Program. The term “embryo adoption” was scrutinized by the assisted reproductive technology community. The American Society for Reproductive Medicine (ASRM)’s Ethics Committee released a report stating that “adoption” refers to “a specific legal procedure that establishes or transfers parentage of existing children.” ASRM’s report concluded that the use of the term adoption in conjunction with embryos was “inaccurate, misleading, and could place burdens upon infertile recipients and should be avoided,” because it equates embryos to the status of children. Therefore, “embryo donation” is the preferred term among the assisted reproductive technology community.

Similar to adoption, embryo donation recipients must undergo a screening process involving an application and a home study. However, unlike adoption, the donation does not need to be finalized in court. Under Indiana law, the woman who gives birth is considered the legal mother and the man she is married to is the legal father. Indiana law is favorable towards embryo donation, and will likely continue to evolve as this practice becomes more common. Although embryo donation does not require court approval, it is important for persons undergoing IVF to include the disposition of any unused embryos in their will. This ensures that those who want to donate their frozen embryos will have their wishes fulfilled in the event of their deaths, and will avoid situations such as this one “What happens to your frozen embryos?”

Thumbnail image for MLJ WEB.jpgMichele L. Jackson, founding partner of Harden Jackson, LLC, and Chair of the firm’s Adoption and Reproductive Law Practice Group, was appointed to the Indiana Governor’s Adoption Committee on July 21, 2014. Michele, who is also the CEO and founder of MLJ Adoptions, will be serving on the committee alongside eight other Indiana adoption professionals.

The Indiana Governor’s Adoption Committee was formed after Governor Pence enacted House Enrolled Act 1222 (HEA 1222) earlier this year. HEA 1222 also established Indiana’s first adoption tax credit. The committee’s responsibilities include studying other states’ partnerships with private, faith-based, and community organizations to provide services through the states’ public adoption programs, making recommendations to improve of Indiana’s adoption programs, and reporting the findings and recommendations to Governor Mike Pence and the Indiana Department of Child Services.

Michele was heavily involved with the Act throughout the legislative process, and had the privilege to testify before the Indiana House Family, Children, and Human Affairs committee in support of the Act. Her testimony included information about the individual and communal benefits of expanding and improving adoption in the State of Indiana, as well as the life-changing impact of adoption. Michele also emphasized that lack of financial resources may dissuade families from pursuing adoption. Michele was honored to attend the ceremonial signing of HEA 1222 alongside adoptive families and other adoption advocates, who were there to witness the culmination of their hard work.