Can I get spousal support or alimony in Indiana after my divorce?

June 14, 2013

Attorney Lanae Harden explains the Indiana law surrounding alimony, or as it's known in Indiana, spousal maintenance. There are limited instances in which a judge would grant spousal maintenance.


Harden Jackson Law is devoted to servicing clients throughout the Indianapolis area and the state of Indiana in all areas family law. Our attorneys are dedicated to providing guidance, tenacious advocacy and effective solutions for your life transitions.

Assisted Reproductive Technology - terms you should know

June 13, 2013

1161454_67402672.jpgAssisted reproductive technology (ART) is a general term referring to the third party techniques or medical methods used to achieve pregnancy without insemination by sexual intercourse. The technology is used for a variety of reasons, but the ultimate goal is for individuals and couples to have a child when they otherwise would not been able to do so. The term is used in medical and legal fields and encompasses a number of different subjects and processes.

For any prospective parent, the jargon can be overwhelming, being inundated with unusual abbreviations and complex terminology. To be able to better understand the legal implications and responsibilities in donor agreements and surrogacy contracts, it is important to have a basic understanding of some of the more common terms and procedures. Below are common terms and their definitions to help prospective parents navigate through the ART journey.

  • ASSISTED REPRODUCTIVE TECHNOLOGY (ART) - A group of treatment methods used to improve fertility, which involves collecting the eggs and putting them in direct contact with sperm.
  • COMPENSATION - Payment of any valuable consideration for services in excess of reasonable medical and ancillary costs
  • CONCEPTION - The fertilization of an egg by sperm that leads to the creation of a baby.
  • CONGENITAL - Conditions present from birth, either hereditary or environmental.
  • CRYOPRESERVATION - The process of freezing tissues or cells and then storing them in liquid nitrogen at very low temperatures. This process is used to store sperm, embryos, and unfertilized eggs. They are stored in small vials or straws that can last for decades.
  • DONOR - An individual who contributes a gamete or gametes for the purpose of in vitro fertilization or implantation in another.
  • DONOR INSEMINATION (DI) - A type of artificial insemination using sperm not from the male partner or husband.
  • DONOR SPERM - Semen specimens donated and used in an ART procedure.
  • EGG DONATION - Process in which eggs from a fertile woman are donated to an infertile woman for use in an ART procedure.
  • EGG RETRIEVAL - A procedure used to collect eggs from a woman's follicles for use in IVF, usually performed with ultrasound-directed needle aspiration during IVF.
  • EMBRYO - A term that describes the time from fertilization of the egg until the first few weeks of pregnancy.
  • EMBRYO FREEZING - See Cyropreservation
  • EMBRYO TRANSFER - Placing an embryo into a woman's uterus or into the fallopian tube after IVF.
  • FERTILITY CLINIC - A program of fertility specialists offering a range of fertility services, usually including ART.
  • FERTILITY DRUGS - A group of drugs given to women to improve fertility. Fertility drugs are also used to treat some men with male factor infertility.
  • FERTILITY SPECIALIST - A doctor who specializes in the diagnosis and treatment of infertility.
  • FERTILIZATION - Penetration of the egg by the sperm cell.
  • FETAL REDUCTION - A technique that reduces the number of fetuses in a multifetal pregnancy to reduce the risks of multiple pregnancy.
  • FETUS - A term used to describe human in utero development, from the period of time when the embryo is fully formed at around 8 weeks, until birth.
  • GAMETE - Either a sperm or an egg.
  • GESTATION - The medical term for pregnancy

Harden Jackson Law can assist you with consultation, preparation, negotiation and review of any consents, contracts, arrangements or parentage documents related to ART processes and surrogacy.


Attorney Michele Jackson speaking at National Adoption Conference

June 7, 2013

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Leah Potter
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For Immediate Release

CARMEL ADOPTION ATTORNEY PRESENTING AT NATIONAL ADOPTION CONFERENCE

CARMEL, IN - June 7, 2013 - Michele Jackson, an attorney at Harden Jackson Law, is presenting on International Adoption at the 2013 National Adoption Conference in Orlando, Florida.

Ms. Jackson will be presenting to leadership and management in the adoption field on the Analysis of Risk in an International Adoption Program and Liability Management for Agencies. The presentation will focus on international adoption and evaluation of the legal and cultural risks. The presentation will outline causing factors, offer practical tips and strategies for dealing with those risks, and mitigating risks and liabilities for an agency. A thorough review of challenges and changes in international adoption and analysis of cultural and political pressures and trends will help attendees understand the process and provide insight into the risks and options for programs in international adoption.

The conference is sponsored by the National Council for Adoption (NCFA). NCFA's mission is to meet the diverse needs of children, birthparents, adopted individuals, adoptive families, and all those touched by adoption through global advocacy, education, research, legislative action, and collaboration.

Ms. Jackson is a founder of HARDEN JACKSON, LLC where she serves as Chair of the Adoption & Reproductive Law Practice Group and concentrates her law practice in adoption, assisted reproductive technology, and international family law. Her practice includes representation for adoptive parents, as well as step-parent and second parent adoptions. Additionally, Ms. Jackson represents intended parents or surrogates in gestational surrogacy arrangements and other Assisted Reproductive matters such as egg donor agreements. She is routinely sought for her knowledge and experience regarding issues in international adoptions and international family law and has extensive experience with children in the United States and orphans worldwide. Ms. Jackson has dedicated herself to the adoption of orphans worldwide, while assisting couples and individuals to realize their dreams of becoming parents. Her commitment includes traveling to countries to develop and maintain in-country contacts including agencies, attorneys and foreign authorities.

Harden Jackson, LLC is a Carmel law firm providing personalized service with a responsive and compassionate approach. As effective and experienced litigators, the attorneys work with clients to develop strategies for negotiating settlements, while always preparing for litigation if necessary. The practice assists clients in all areas of family law, adoption and reproductive law matters. For more information, please contact Harden Jackson Law

Orphans that can't be adopted - the plight of the "social orphan"

June 6, 2013

By: Michele Jackson

1350860_hand-in-hand.jpgThere are anywhere from 143,000,000 to 165,000,000 million orphans living in our world. This number is astonishing but what do these numbers represent? These numbers are developed from attempting to account for children that have one or more parent absent and the child is often living with relatives, foster parents, in orphanages or on the streets. It is unclear as to whether the "social orphan" is included in this number. I would venture to say that if the child is in an institution then they are accounted for; however, the "social orphan" is one that is difficult to quantify and has not been properly protected under the laws of many states or International conventions (Convention on the Rights of the Child, Hague Convention on Inter-Country Adoption).

The "social orphan" is the most common child in an orphanage. A "social orphan" is a child that has parents living that cannot or will not take care of the child but the parent's rights to the child are still intact and have not been terminated. Often these parents are working long hours in remote areas, not able to afford/feed their children or have drug/alcohol related issues that are preventing them from parenting. I am consistently asked about adopting specific children living in an orphanage and often I know that the child is likely to be a "social orphan". A "social orphan" is not adoptable in most situations. The child will likely not be adoptable because of one or more of the following reasons:

  1. Biological parents will not voluntarily terminate their rights in the child (even if they did, it is possible the child would not qualify for international adoption according to US Federal Immigration laws);
  2. The state does not have a mechanism to terminate parental rights in a situation where parents are not caring for a child;
  3. The state does not exercise their legal process to terminate parents' rights where parents are not caring for a child;
  4. While certain state agencies may be favorable to terminating parental rights in situations in which parents are not caring for a child, Courts/Judges may not favor such an action which requires their adjudication;
  5. Lack of resources to pursue legal action to terminate parents' rights; and
  6. United State Citizenship and Immigration services and Federal Immigration laws may not allow for parents to terminate their parental rights (two-parent orphans) for the purpose of adoption thus a "social orphan" may not qualify for the orphan visa (meaning the child cannot come into the US after the adoption).

From anecdotal analysis and experience, many "social orphans' are left in an orphanage their entire lives. I would estimate that 80-90% of children living in orphanages in Latin America are "social orphans" and not available for adoption. Eastern Europe has "social orphans" but has been more successful in terminating parental rights and seeking adoption for many children. Most of Africa is completely overwhelmed with their orphan crisis and lacks resources to resolve this crisis in any way. Prospective adoptive parents are continually baffled by the enormous number of orphans and inability to adopt these orphans in an efficient manner. We should not only be baffled but we should be angry! These children are worthy of a family that can care for them.

Action needed:


  • NGOs, foundations, missions, governments need to help account for orphans (including "social orphans") in countries. Know the problem and then seek resolve: provide resources, education and training for preventative measures and post abandonment resolutions.

  • Education in US and foreign countries on the need for protection of orphans, including "social orphans".

  • Resources on how to legally pursue reunification with family, termination of parents rights, domestic adoption or international adoption.

  • Change in US laws to allow for international adoption of two parent "social orphans" in non-Hague countries (which is currently prohibited if parents attempt to consent to an adoption in this scenario).


"Social orphans" may have one of the worst opportunities for a future. They are an orphan without family care, often living with substandard nutrition, medical care and education and yet they never have the opportunity for a family through domestic or international adoption. Their options: Family reunification, domestic adoption, international adoption but often their reality is life in an orphanage or on the streets with little to no help. The even starker reality is their future is filled with death by preventable diseases, suicide, prostitution and crime.

What can you do?

Contact your Congressman/women and find out what they are doing to help? How are they involved? Are they following the U.S. State Department and their efforts? What is the State Department doing when a country closes to international adoption and has hundreds of thousands of orphans?

What non-profits can you work with to assist these orphans?

Educate yourself. Dig deep into which organizations support the plight of orphans around the world. Did you know that UNICEF is not favorable to international adoption? Did you know UNICEF receives billions of dollars from US citizens, companies and government which supports an underlying anti-international adoption agenda?

Be heard - While international adoption is not the only option for these children, it is one of the options. All efforts for reunification, domestic adoption and international adoption are necessary.

At Harden Jackson, our Adoption Practice Group can assist clients in a number of domestic and international adoption matters. If you would like more information on adoption, please call Harden Jackson Law. If you would like information on helping orphans around the world, please contact the Global Orphan Foundation.

The role of a Guardian ad Litem in family law cases

May 31, 2013

1205419_little_fisher.jpgYou may be wondering what the role of a Guardian Ad Litem is in family law cases. Frequently abbreviated "GAL", the Guardian Ad Litem is a volunteer appointed by the court to represent the best interests of a child involved in litigation. Indiana law requires the appointment of either a guardian ad litem or a trained court appointed special advocate in abuse and neglect cases. The purpose of the GAL is NOT to directly "represent" the child, a distinction which some find confusing, especially as many GALs are attorneys. However, it is not necessary to be an attorney to be a GAL, but Indiana does required that GAL or CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocates) volunteers complete special training.

Traditionally, GAL/CASA volunteers have been appointed in abuse or neglect cases or when a child becomes subject of proceedings to terminate a parent/child relationship. However, Indiana law allows for appointments of these special volunteers in divorce or paternity cases, which is becoming more frequent, especially when custody is contested or allegations arise regarding the health and safety of the child in the family law proceeding.

The GAL will perform a number of functions in a case to help determine the best interests of a child. The volunteer may conduct home visits and interview the parent(s), stepparents, significant others, or extended family who are involved in the child's home life. They may also interview any child care providers as well as teachers and may review medical or education records. The GAL is tasked with investigating the child's situation and ultimately filing a report with the court regarding the GAL's recommendation about custody of the child. For more information about the role of GAL/CASA volunteers in Indiana, please visit the Kids' Voice of Indiana link below.

Dissolution of Marriage in Guardian Ad Litem Practice

If you have questions about divorce in Indiana or other family law matters, please contact Harden Jackson Law.

Remember, these suggestions are not meant to be legal advice. You should consult a family law attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

The role of Parenting Coordinators for Indiana parents

May 24, 2013

By: Amanda Glowacki

17.jpgThe use of parenting coordinators is something our office is seeing more and more in domestic relations cases in the Indianapolis area. Like mediation or collaborative law, there is a demand for alternative means of resolving domestic relations cases outside of court. Where appropriate, I believe that Parenting Coordinators can be very beneficial to parents who have high conflict on routine issues. These are issues that that are not necessarily suited for a judge to decide such as parenting time exchanges, daycare, etc.

A Parenting Coordinator (PC) is a court-appointed "special master" tasked to assist parents with the development, implementation, and monitoring of parenting plans in hopes of reducing re-litigation. PCs also help parties and their children adjust to divorce and resolve impasses between parents. Most PCs have experience with family law issues whether it is as an attorney, counselor, or mental health professional. A PC's authority is specifically defined by the Court through an Order of Appointment prepared by the parties and their attorneys. The order outlines which matters a PC can address as well as confidentiality, length of appointment, authority to request information, fees, etc.

Although I think that PCs can be wonderful at reducing conflict, I do not think they are not meant for everyone. I typically only recommend them to high conflict parents who have parenting issues that might otherwise force them to have repeated hearings or mediations. While many clients believe that they are high conflict, truly high conflict couples are those whose disputes are frequent and often crisis-oriented. With high conflict couples, one or both of the parties appear to the other as demanding, highly emotional and reactive to the point that you are unable to make simple decisions together. They will have ongoing conflict through continuous routine disputes over parenting time and face inflexibility by either or both of the parents. These are the couples that cannot resolve their issues without the assistance of their attorneys and the litigation process.

Looking that the Indiana PC Guidelines, PCs are intended to be used in the following:
• disputes about different interpretations of an order, Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines or parenting plans which need to be resolved in a timely manner; e.g., vacation/holiday schedules, transportation to and from visits, methods of pick-up and delivery, extracurricular activities, childcare, first right of refusal, and withholding visitation;
• accusations of neglect or abuse, which place the children in a situation of emotional risk;
• parents with severe personality disorders who are locked in impasses and are chronically litigating;
• consistent unsubstantiated allegations by one parent of misconduct on the part of the other parent, such as poor judgment, safety issues, abuse, and violence; and
• a history of alleged or actual alienating tactics, or alienation of the child from a parent.

Often, when I suggest intervention of a PC, many parents fear they will lose the power to make decisions about their children. However, a PC's first priority is to make reasonable efforts for parents to resolve their disputes themselves. When that is not possible, the PC (depending on what level of authority they are given) may offer a recommendation that decides the issue and is binding unless one of the parents brings the matter to the Court for a hearing. The PC invites each parent to present his and her evidence/opinion and tries to facilitate a mutually agreed upon decision. PCs may also have the authority to gather additional information as necessary. Additionally, Level 3 PC's have authority to select and manage a treatment team for parents and the children who may need to attend counseling or therapy.

A final key to remember with PCs is that their services are not to be considered mandatory divorce counseling or therapy. Once a PC has met the parties and has an idea of what their issues are, he/she will either schedule ongoing contacts with you via regularly scheduled sessions, phone consultations, or e-mail consultations as needed to meet the requirements of the Court order. Most of the time, a PC will only be around as much as they are needed. Their goal is to get the parents to a point where they can co-parent effectively on their own.

The attorneys of Harden Jackson Law are devoted to servicing clients throughout the Indianapolis area and the state of Indiana in all areas family law, including divorce, custody, child support, property division, paternity, post-divorce modifications, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, simple wills, adoption, surrogacy and other areas of assisted reproductive technology law.

Questions to consider when using a surrogate - Part 2 of 2

May 21, 2013

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This is part two of a two-part series on surrogacy considerations.Surrogacy can be an extraordinary gift to help an individual or couples build their family. However, it is best if some security measures be employed to ensure that all parties have a positive experience. There are many issues to consider when entering into a surrogacy relationship. The topics below are by no means exhaustive, as every surrogacy relationship is different. Once again, we present you additional questions to consider when using a surrogate.

1. Is the surrogate married?
The surrogate might benefit by having the support of a husband or partner throughout the process. The surrogate's partner may also need to agree to be tested for a sexually transmitted disease. The husband will also need to sign some of the legal documents.

2. Has she had other children?
It is required that the surrogate have carried a healthy child to term so that it is clear that the surrogate has the ability to have a normal pregnancy without complications, including preterm labor or birth.

3. What kind of lifestyle is she living?
Your surrogate is using her body to grow your child, so you want to choose one who will make the right daily choices for your baby. Ask your surrogate about her diet, fitness level, nicotine habits, and lifestyle choices such as drug and alcohol consumption before and during pregnancy to make sure you're choosing a healthy surrogate for a healthy baby.

4. How old is the surrogate?
It is important that the surrogate is of legal age to consent to an agreement, but is also not of a more mature age that may create complications or risks in the surrogate pregnancy.

5. Is she emotionally stable?
Make sure that she is seen by a psychologist prior to any transfer of embryos to evaluate her emotional ability to be a surrogate. There should be a full psychological evaluation of the surrogate. The surrogate should also be seen by a psychologist throughout the pregnancy and up to two months after birth.

6. Does she have a history of STI's?
STI's can put the baby's health at risk and should be evaluated prior to any transfer into the surrogate's body.

7. Can you afford the cost of the agreement?
Do you have the financial ability to pay for the pregnancy? Can you cope with the costs of a high-risk pregnancy, premature birth and miscarriage? Multiple babies can increase the cost of the surrogate, as well as taking care of them after they are born, meaning multiple cribs, diapers, car seats, etc. Speaking of financial woes, using surrogacy to have a child is not an inexpensive undertaking. You'll be responsible for paying the medical bills of the surrogate as well as any legal costs that might arise from the pregnancy. You want to make sure you have an accurate understanding of your financial obligation prior to beginning your journey.

8. What kind of relationship do you/she want to have?
This is where each party learns what is expected of him or her by the other, and if they can do what is expected of them before and during the pregnancy. They should also discuss the kind of relationship they believe they would want after birth. Many couples and surrogate mothers find they cannot answer this question, because they have never participated in surrogacy before. This is an answer in itself, as it indicates they are open to many possibilities. A counselor can guide the parties by giving them situations that they might want to consider. If a long-term relationship is expected by any party, that is ok, but the request needs to be evaluated in terms of what is in the best interest of the child.

9. Is one parent biologically connected?
If either an egg donor or sperm donor are needed with a surrogate mother, be prepared for a far more complicated relationship both legally and psychologically. In Indiana, if the surrogate has any genetic relationship to the child(ren), the intended parents risk having her assert her parental rights and getting shared custody of the resulting child(ren). Also, if both donor egg and donor sperm are used then this creates more legal risk that the surrogate could assert parental rights in the child that she carried. Since neither the intended mother or intended father are genetically related, they are in no position to say that they have more rights to the child that the surrogate is carrying, other than claiming their "intent". Indiana has had no disputes regarding any donor material so it is unclear how the court would decide such a situation.

10. What is the legal status of the relationship in the surrogate's state?
It is crucial to get an independent legal consultation regarding the laws of the state where she resides. If there are any doubts about finalizing your parental rights, you should not proceed with that surrogate. You should also not proceed with a surrogate if she is planning on delivering the baby in another state because she could go into premature labor and this may not be possible. It is best that all parties have their own separate legal counsel to represent their best interests.

If you have questions about surrogacy or other family law matters, please contact Harden Jackson Law.


Remember, these suggestions are not meant to be legal advice. You should consult an attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

My Cheating Spouse: What Impact Does Infidelity Have on Divorce?

May 16, 2013

By: Clarissa Finnell

wedding_rings_-_african_american.jpgAlmost every meeting with a new divorce client starts with a recitation of all the reasons that the parties are getting divorced. High on that list is infidelity. Clients will provide me with loads and loads of evidence that their spouse is cheating and are surprised to find out that all this "proof" of infidelity is unlikely to impact their divorce. Indiana is a no-fault divorce state which in basic terms means that the reason the parties are divorcing is not a factor considered by the court when dividing up the parties' assets and debts. The reason or grounds for divorce that is most commonly used in Indiana divorce petitions is that there has been an "irretrievable breakdown" in the marriage. It is important to know that there does not have to be a consensus on whether the marriage is "irretrievably broken". As long as one party alleges that it is "broken", the divorce can be granted.

So, does this mean that your spouse's cheating will never be relevant in a divorce proceeding? Not necessarily; there are a couple of incidents where it may play a factor. The first is dissipation. There is a presumption in Indiana that all marital assets and liabilities be divided equally. There are several ways that you can rebut that presumption. Dissipation is a factor that the court may consider when deciding to divide the marital estate. If you can show that your spouse used marital assets on another person during your marriage that may be considered dissipation. For example, spending money on travel or gifts for the "other" woman or man may be considered dissipation and warrant a deviation from the presumptive 50/50 division.

In addition to being a factor considered in the division of property, a significant other may be a factor in a custody determination. The court will not correlate one's fitness to be a parent with their faithfulness as a spouse. However, the court may consider the parent's judgment with respect to when and if they introduce their children to the other person. Generally, it is not wise to introduce children to a new girlfriend or boyfriend too soon after the separation. The Court would also be concerned about the parent's judgment if their new significant other poses a danger to the children. Exposing the children to someone who is abusing alcohol or drugs or that has a history of abusing children, would impact a custody determination.

Although the law in Indiana does not take punitive measures against the cheating spouse, there are limited circumstances where it may be a factor in the divorce process. As these cases are fact sensitive, it is always a good idea to discuss the specifics of your case with an attorney to determine what if any relevance your spouse's actions will impact your divorce.

The attorneys at Harden Jackson practice exclusively in the area of family law and are skilled at handling any type of family law case. While divorce and legal separation are the more common areas of practice, we have extensive experience with custody, child support, pre/post-marital agreements and more.

If you have questions about divorce in Indiana or other family law matters, please contact Harden Jackson Law.


Remember, these suggestions are not meant to be legal advice. You should consult an attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

Questions to consider when using a surrogate - Part 1

May 14, 2013

Thumbnail image for 1252251_maternity_photos.jpgSurrogacy can be an extraordinary gift to help an individual or couples build their family. However, it is best if some security measures be employed to ensure that all parties have a positive experience. There are many issues to consider when entering into a surrogacy relationship. The topics below are by no means exhaustive, as every surrogacy relationship is different. Your needs as well as the needs of the Surrogate may change during the course of the surrogacy. With that said, it is extremely important to consider the following information prior to entering into a surrogacy relationship. This is part one of a two-part series.

1. Is the surrogate in a "surrogacy friendly" state?
It is extremely important that the surrogate resides in a "surrogate friendly" state. It could prohibit the intended parents from establishing parentage in the child if the state prohibits surrogacy. There are a number of legal issues that concern third party reproduction. The laws regarding third party reproduction vary and are different from one state to another in the United States. Thus, all couples are advised to consult with an attorney who is knowledgeable in the area of reproductive law, within their individual state. And this attorney needs to be legally able to practice law in the state where the surrogate will deliver.
There are very few states that protect the Intended Parents (IP) by issuing pre-birth orders through the court system which places the name of the Intended Parents on the birth certificate prior to the baby being born. This makes the IPs the Legal Parent(s) at birth and they do not have to adopt their baby.
In the United States, the surrogate must live, be a legal resident, and deliver in one of the surrogate-friendly states.

2. Is there a medical necessity to have a surrogate?
Keeping your good figure or a stressful high-powered job are not valid reasons to work with a surrogate mother. Most IVF doctors (and all good IVF doctors) will only work with couples that have a medical reason to do surrogacy. There are sometimes psychological issues that can be included, but we consider psychological to be a medical reason.

3. Do I want to go through an agency, or find a surrogate as an independent?
Evaluate the advantages to working with a reputable surrogacy agency. Choosing surrogacy means you'll need a help to oversee the process. An agency helps by matching you with a surrogate that is a compatible match for you as well as coordinating any screening and legal consultations. An agency also discusses unthinkable issues such as pregnancy termination and reduction, complications, compensation, housekeeping expenses, bedrest, confidentiality issues, etc. They can help with an anxious process by educating you and coordinating all of the overwhelming steps.

4. Does this surrogate have insurance without a surrogacy exclusion?
If her insurance includes a clause that excludes surrogacy pregnancies, then she will need a supplemental insurance policy. If the intended parents do not obtain a supplemental insurance policy, they should be prepared to pay for any expenses during the pregnancy out of pocket, including any costly complications. State or federal insurance, like Medicare, are an absolute bar for surrogacy.

5. Do I need a supplemental insurance policy?
Supplemental insurance is always a good idea to protect intended parents from extremely costly complications that are unforeseen during the pregnancy or birthing process. Although the policies are expensive, it could end up costing intended parents more money if they opt not to obtain a supplemental policy.

If you have questions about surrogacy or other family law matters, please contact Harden Jackson Law.


Remember, these suggestions are not meant to be legal advice. You should consult an attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

Attorney Michele Jackson speaking at Child Welfare Symposium

May 10, 2013

MLJ headshot.jpgMichele Jackson, an attorney at Harden Jackson Law, is presenting on International Adoption at the 37th Annual Child Welfare Symposium sponsored by the Joint Council on international children's services (JCICS) on May 21st, 2013.

The lightning talk is titled, Analysis of Risk in an International Adoption Program and Strategic Planning for Growth Amidst the Risk and Hague Convention. It is part of a fast-paced session for attendees to hear about different child and family-related topics from professionals in a variety of fields.

The Joint Council helps orphaned and vulnerable children live in a permanent and safe family by advocating on their behalf, marshaling the resources they need, educating those who serve them and mobilizing those who care. Joint Council and its partner organizations provided services to 2.1 million children and families in 2010.

Ms. Jackson is a founder of HARDEN JACKSON, LLC where she serves as Chair of the Adoption & Reproductive Law Practice Group and concentrates her law practice in adoption, assisted reproductive technology, and international family law. Her practice includes representation for adoptive parents, as well as step-parent and second parent adoptions. Additionally, Ms. Jackson represents intended parents or surrogates in gestational surrogacy arrangements and other Assisted Reproductive matters such as egg donor agreements. She is routinely sought for her knowledge and experience regarding issues in international adoptions and international family law and has extensive experience with children in the United States and orphans worldwide. Ms. Jackson has dedicated herself to the adoption of orphans worldwide, while assisting couples and individuals to realize their dreams of becoming parents. Her commitment includes traveling to countries to develop and maintain in-country contacts including agencies, attorneys and foreign authorities.

Harden Jackson, LLC is a Carmel law firm providing personalized service with a responsive and compassionate approach. As effective and experienced litigators, the attorneys work with clients to develop strategies for negotiating settlements, while always preparing for litigation if necessary. The practice assists clients in all areas of family law, adoption and reproductive law matters.

Top 5 things you need to tell your divorce lawyer

May 7, 2013

Once you have chosen the right the right family law attorney for you, there are essential pieces of information that you should share with your attorney immediately to help you with a positive outcome.
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  1. Disclose any disparaging allegations from the opposing party. Be up front about what your soon-to-be ex is saying about you. Whether true or not, if he/she is making claims about your behavior or actions, it is in your best interest to tell your attorney about this. Your attorney can prepare to respond to these allegations.
  2. Disclose your basic financial information. This includes your income, debts and assets. Financial issues are typically a determining factor on whether your case will need to go to litigation or can be settled.
  3. Names and ages of your children. Also, tell your attorney if any of your children have special needs or anything else that should be taken into consideration when it comes to parenting time or future financial support of your children.
  4. Disclose the case history. Are there upcoming hearings for this case? Are we the first attorneys to represent you for this matter? Have you tried to modify the agreement in the past? This information will assist your attorney with advising you on your path forward.
  5. Your goals. What outcome would you like from this situation? What are your ideas around asset division or parenting time? The better you can communicate this to your attorney, the sooner they can begin to work on a solution for you.


At HARDEN JACKSON, LLC, our entire practice is devoted to servicing clients throughout the Indianapolis area and the state of Indiana in all areas family law, including divorce, custody, child support, property division, paternity, post-divorce modifications, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, simple wills, adoption, surrogacy and other areas of assisted reproductive technology law.
Our services are designed to provide expert guidance, tenacious advocacy, and effective solutions that ensure you can continue your journey with confidence that you have obtained the best outcome for you and your family. We are experienced, seasoned litigators and advocates. We are skilled negotiators, including registered mediators. We are an assertive, effective team of attorneys providing comprehensive services.

If you have questions about divorce or other family law matters, please contact Harden Jackson Law.


Remember, these suggestions are not meant to be legal advice. You should consult an attorney to discuss the specifics of your situation.

Attorney Michele Jackson featured in local magazine on adoption

April 30, 2013

Attorney Michele Jackson, who chairs the Adoption Practice Group of Harden Jackson Law, is featured in this month's Hamilton County Family magazine. The article is titled "The Adoption Option" and discusses the process of adoption.

Jackson is a founding member of Harden Jackson where she offers numerous legal services for domestic and international adoptions including private and agency adoptions, step-parent adoptions, second parent adoptions, and surrogacy contracts. In addition, Jackson is also the founder of MLJ Adoptions, an international adoption agency based in Indianapolis.

See below to read the article


Struggling with Infertility?

April 23, 2013

Thumbnail image for 1252251_maternity_photos.jpgThe National Infertility Association will recognize National Infertility Awareness Week®, April 21 through April 27, joining millions of women and men fighting the disease of infertility, professionals and other thought leaders to promote greater awareness about infertility. For National Infertility Awareness Week®, Harden Jackson will focus our activity on educating both professionals and families on issues relating to infertility. Harden Jackson is dedicated to assisting couple and individuals achieve the dream of building a family. We provide sound legal advice for an oftentimes confusing and emotional journey. There are quite a few different ways to bring a child into your life. While certainly not comprehensive, the following information can help you understand more about the different ways you can build your family.

Surrogacy - Surrogacy is an assisted reproductive technology which provides an option for individuals or couples who are unable to conceive or carry a child. Advances in reproductive methods including in vitro fertilization (IVF) provide alternatives for creation and implantation of an embryo for pregnancy. A surrogate agrees to become pregnant for the purpose of giving the child to another individual or couple (the "intended parent(s)" or "IPs"). Parties to a surrogate arrangement typically enter into a surrogacy contract (or surrogacy agreement) which details the terms of the process including costs.

Egg or Sperm Donation - Surrogacy can also involve egg and/or sperm donations. If you are using an egg or sperm donor for your surrogacy process, most agencies or REI doctors will require a legal contract to address the responsibilities of both the Intended/Recipient Parent(s) (IPs) and the donor. The contracts provide protection for all parties by detailing compensation and responsibilities and help clarify expectations.

Embryo Adoption - Embryo adoption provides a new adoption choice! Rather than adopting a child who has already emerged from her mother's womb, embryo adoption allows the adopting family to begin the adoption journey nine months earlier with pregnancy and childbirth. Embryo Adoption provides the Intended Parents, who are unable to naturally or medically conceive, the opportunity to give birth to a child (this could also include using a Surrogate).

In all of the above situations there are legal implications and responsibilities. For more information on the legal services we provide to help you build your family, contact Harden Jackson Law.

Adoption Case Reaches the Supreme Court

April 16, 2013

It is very rare that a family law case reaches the Supreme Court. However, on Tuesday, emotions boiled over at the U.S. Supreme Court as the justices heard arguments in a case testing the meaning and reach of the Indian Child Welfare Act, known as ICWAA. This is a case that touches on the already complex process of adoption and the United States' embarrassing history of taking away Native American children from their family - this is no typical family law case.

MLJ headshot.jpgAccording to the Huffington Post, the case involves a South Carolina couple fighting for custody of their adopted daughter who, after a court battle, was returned to her biological father in Oklahoma.

At issue is the Indian Child Welfare Act, a federal law that gives tribes and relatives a say in decisions affecting children with Native American heritage. Passed in 1978 because of the high number of Indian children being removed from their homes by public and private agencies, the act gives the tribe and relatives a say in decisions affecting the child. In the current case, to be heard Tuesday, more than a dozen states and 23 current and former members of Congress have filed briefs supporting the law.

Matt and Melanie Capobianco adopted a baby several years ago, but the girl's father - a member of the Cherokee Nation whom she had never met - argued that the child's mother gave her up without his consent. The state's highest court sided with him, and she was returned to Oklahoma.

When Dusten Brown challenged the Capobiancos' adoption, he said federal law favored the girl living with him and growing up learning tribal traditions. A South Carolina court agreed with Brown, who took the girl - named Veronica, and now age 3 - back to Oklahoma in 2011.

Appealing to the state Supreme Court, the Capobiancos said they had bonded with Veronica and argued that removing her was detrimental to her development. But justices sided with Brown last summer, saying in an emotional opinion that, while the Capobiancos were "ideal parents," federal law requires that custodial preference be given to the child's Native American parent.

As reported by NPR, emotions were pretty raw inside the Supreme Court chamber. That's not particularly surprising, given that two of the justices -- Chief Justice John Roberts and Justice Clarence Thomas -- have adopted children.

But it was Justice Sonia Sotomayor who jumped in feet first, repeatedly cutting off the adoptive parents' lawyer, Lisa Blatt, before Blatt could answer a question.

Finally the chief justice silenced Sotomayor, saying, "Could I hear her answer, please!"

Blatt argued that Brown could not invoke ICWA to get custody of his daughter. He had "no legal rights whatsoever," she said, because he had given them up and failed to provide any financial support.

Justice Antonin Scalia disagreed, saying, "This guy is the father of the child, and they're taking the child away from him even though he wants it."

Blatt replied that the birth father, who had not had any contact with the child and provided no financial support, had "a biological link that under state law was equivalent to a sperm donor."

But "this isn't state law," countered Scalia -- it's a federal statute that uses "expansive" language to define the Indian family and to prevent its breakup.

Sotomayor took a similar view, asking, "If the choice is between a mother, a biological father or a stranger, and if the father's fit, why do you think" that the federal statute requires the child to be given to a stranger -- namely, the adoptive parents?

The only stranger here, shot back Blatt, was the birth father, "who expressly repudiated all parental rights."

Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg challenged Blatt's characterization, noting that the birth father said he only intended to surrender his custodial rights to the mother, not to adoptive parents, and that when he found out about the adoption, he objected.

Nonetheless, Blatt argued, Congress did not intend for ICWA to reach a situation like this one, where there was no existing Indian family with custody prior to the adoption. Applying ICWA to this adoption dispute, she said, would amount to "conscripting other people's children to grow the tribal population based solely on a biological link."

Attorney Michele Jackson, who chairs the Adoption Law Division, notes that the ICWA was enacted federally, but does apply in each state, including Indiana. "The purpose of the law is well-meaning and generally good but potentially too far reaching into ancestry, as in this case in which the father is 2% Native American, so we assume child has even less ancestry." There is a dichotomy in the law, in that putative fathers may have little rights in Indiana but yet Indian tribes potentially have more rights than a father. Indiana likely needs to revise their statutes to provide better and more clear protections to birth families and potentially Indian tribes. Ms. Jackson concludes, "You can be pro-adoption and pro-birth family/history at the same time."

A decision in the case is expected by the end of June.

How much does it cost to divorce in Indiana?

April 16, 2013


One of the first questions we get from prospective clients inquiring about divorce is "How much money will my divorce cost?" This question is tough to answer. There are so many extenuating circumstances that can affect your legal costs in divorce. There ARE ways 72.jpgto minimize legal fees and maintain control over the terms of your divorce. At Harden Jackson Law, we encourage spouses to avoid litigation and consider alternatives such as mediation or collaborative law. Both are less expensive than traditional divorce litigation, but each alternative method still provides a structured, legal process to work out detailed terms. However, there are many situations that aren't suitable for collaborative law or mediation. Here are a few tips to minimize your legal costs in your divorce:

  • Speak directly with the opposing party. Don't reach out to your attorney with disputes that could be sorted out between the parties, particularly if it is a parenting time issue that is already addressed in the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines (IPTG).
  • Disputes over minor property issues (like movies, sporting equipment, kitchen stuff) are not cost effective. If it costs more for your attorney to fight over a particular item than it would be to replace it, then it may not be worth fighting over unless there is a sentimental attachment.
  • Organize discovery responses on your own. Clients who do their own due diligence and send back organized documents and responses are rewarded by not having their attorney incur bills to get everything together.
  • Be timely with information requests. Having your attorney keep reminding you to send documents only incurs more fees. In fact, the cheapest option is an informal discovery where the parties are organized enough to get their financial documents exchanged without the need to request it.
  • "Sleep on it". Don't make emotional decisions. If opposing counsel sends an offer or a response, wait to respond when emotions have died down. Spending a lot of time crafting a response while emotions are high cost money and may even lead to regret.
At HARDEN JACKSON, we want all of our clients to be satisfied with the fees charged relative to the services provided. It is appropriate and important to discuss fees with your prospective attorney during your consultation and throughout the process of your case. You are entitled to an estimation of potential total costs related to your particular situation. For more information on divorce in Indiana or your family law situation, contact Harden Jackson Law.